volunqueering

Oct. 7th, 2025 06:57 am
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Lambert House last night, including database monkeying. It all went pretty well, and maybe too well: the troubled youth that the facilitators have had to make... arrangements for didn't show up this time. My fellow volunteers say that with any luck, it's because he's busy with school. He's a much more ambitious student than he let on to me.

And with all due love & respect to St. Mark's, I can't wait to get back into our own space. Why? Less noise because the groups are on a different floor from the main social areas, and we'll be able to set up the video conferencing and leave it up. And for me, the house takes less time to get to than St. Mark's, which is on the edge of an expensive residential area and therefore not as well served by transit.
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- I ended up tapping out of work on Friday, because my stomach/innards started doing the thing that sent me to the ER, and I needed to take meds and fall over RIGHT THEN. Things slowly got better, but I pretty much crashed on the couch all weekend, watching tv and doing hand sewing. Buttons. Many buttons.

- I still have many medical appointments to schedule. My labs and ultrasounds all came back fine, but apparently I have some ovarian cysts; those plus some other possible pelvic issues may be the cause of my sudden-onset abdominal pain. Therefore, time to find a GYN and make an appointment. Lets's see how far out the ones suggested by my GP are booked, whee.

- My boss moved our 1:1 to today (instead of the usual Wed. time) because she wanted to talk to me about having a mentor to help me hone my skills in writing leadership & exec communications. The big things I need to improve, apparently, are giving the tl;dr version with the important info, the "why" behind the issue, and to call out the areas where I don't have the answers; in fact, it's good to point out where I don't have answers. I'm all for a mentor, but that last bit of pointing out where I don't have answers freaks me out. I'm supposed to be perfect, dammit. (Cue laughter from everyone around me, yes, I know.)

She also commented that I'm doing really well, and this is all to set me up for future success to get the promotion. This leads me to believe that maybe I'll get a decent review.  Now let's set the timer for when the Brain Raccoons will start screeching.

- My duster from Market of Stars arrived. The print is gorgeous. The fabric is much lighter than I expected. And the shape is a little more square than I expected. It's beautiful, but ... let's put it this way, I'm glad I didn't spend my own money on it. I'm sure I'll be able to figure out a way to make it look better than "Hi, I'm wearing a square of fabric", but it'll take more finessing than I expected.

This and that and a very tired me.

Oct. 6th, 2025 10:01 am
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+ All I've done since making it home is sleep, download some stuff, watch the entire season of Wayward, and play undemanding video games. Man have I slept. Would like to lie down right now and sleep some more, but I'm headed back to work for the day (we abruptly left Thursday instead of Friday as planned, so I left behind a wee bit more chaos that I'm comfortable with).

Surprisingly smooth ride on the ferry though, given the weather.

+ Dear Vidder letters for Festivids are cropping up, and they're such a pleasure to read through. Aww fandom ❤️

+ Hunting down the digital singles for Birds of Prey, bc waiting for the trade to drop in six months is just not on the table. More Big Barda and Tiny Bat NOW. And they cancelled it, so I ain't giving them extra money, no sir :p

Now to figure out how to read them in an enjoyable manner.

Oh! And posted some scans to [community profile] capshare from the second and third trade.

+ Watched the new Fantastic Four. It was cozy! I'm enjoying this new return to more child-friendly superhero movies. Like, I can see letting my nephew watch both this and the new Superman movie with me. I don't need all this dark stuff for grownups; the world is dark enough as is, gimme escapism!

Nun takes the Tickler to Burnerland.

Oct. 5th, 2025 08:49 pm
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Last night was one of the Petting Zoo parties down in Sodo, to which I took the Tickler. Since this was a Burner-flavored* event, there were thundering herds of scantily-clad sweet things. The Tickler and I had huge fun watching people, or as they put it, being door queens.

Shallow fashion detials: my newish hot pink latex bodycon tank dress with "Slut" in Barbie-like type across the chest. Over that, my leather harness wrapped with two strands of blue electroluminescent wire with the drivers taped to the harness. I brought spare tape and batteries in case I needed them, so of course I didn't. Those batteries had probably been in my Burning Man bins since 2018. It is to laugh.

Was it kind of queer? Yes. Did the kinky folk show up? You know they did, but not quite in the same numbers as last time. Were the DJs good? Yes, notably a young lady called DJ Zucchini, who was mentored by DJ Trinitron. Trinitron had just come from the baseball playoff game and had gotten some attitude from the door people because she was wearing her Seattle Mariners shirt, and they didn't know who she was. Nyuk nyuk nyuk!

Today, Tickler-friendly, i.e. lactose-free, breakfast, then lunch at Made In House.

In summation, much fun.



*The Petting Zoo folks aren't really affiliated with Slutgarden as I'd thought. They just share personnel, including the founders of Petting Zoo.

Bruno

Oct. 5th, 2025 08:21 pm

(cats, harvest, anger)

Oct. 5th, 2025 08:15 pm
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Reading the current talking points from Republicans, here in the form of a question -- "Do you support shutting down the federal government to provide illegal immigrants taxpayer-subsidized health care?' -- makes me so angry. I am acknowledging the feeling. Hi anger! And part of the anger is that i believe that there is an abundance in this world and we should be able to provide health care to all. I don't think there are any elected congress critters trying to make that happen.

Yesterday was the first day my hands got cold outside while sitting on the deck before work. (Saturday morning i spent with inside with Bruno, as he hid under the bed. Sunday was complicated.)

I think the remaining chestnuts on the tree are poorly pollinated burrs. So, that was a quick abundance that came in but it's done. The figs' abundance seems over, and i seem unmotivated to hunt the late ripening fruit. Next harvests, lemongrass and persimmons.

Don't know what to do with the lemongrass. For Saturday's lunch i harvested some and some of my walking onions (which are related to shallots), both are very small compared to commercial things. Both have the same challenge of peeling back the less tender bits and trying to not peel back too much. Since they aren't large, it just feels like so much work for not so much food. I fried in butter, added some old white wine, and then left over rice. Yummy!

I think one thing: maybe instead of harvesting the biggest stalks, pot them up and give them another year. If i can remember to use the other stalks in broths, just flavor like bay leaves, that might be the easiest way to enjoy them. I think i've dried leaves in the past but i don't drink enough herbal teas to really use it up yet.

Today (Sunday) we had some good socialization time with Bruno with a variety of interactions. Carrie is a very good dog and has behaved well. I recalled how she used to  try to keep Marlowe and Edward from fighting and had a wave of missing Edward.  I am much more optimistic about how the three will get along, but Bruno does seem so very skittish and needs safe places.

sunday

Oct. 5th, 2025 01:35 pm
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The fall colors (on the trees) are terrible this year. The maple leaves are just turning brown on the trees and falling off. Lots of nice dry leaves to shuffle through but no good color. The best color around here is from these mums on the front porch.

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Here's a close up.

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I finished the earrings for Berdella just now.

Trying to keep focused on cleaning and redding up. My two cousins and their spouses from California are coming to town on Monday and we invited them for a cookout on Wednesday. The weather will be turning cold before then so we'll probably be inside a lot of the time. Their mom and dad spent their honeymoon in the cottage that was once down back by the creek. I'm sure they'll like seeing that spot again. The foundation of the cottage is still there. Besides cleaning for that I have the regular Sunday dinner for the grandkids and Jules later today. I've been hearing people talk about broccoli salad a lot lately so thought I'd make that and a casserole of noodles, vegan mushroom soup, peas and grilled fake chicken. Dave wants to make real chicken on the grill for the meat eaters.

saturday

Oct. 4th, 2025 06:00 pm
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Leaves. In a repeat of last year I got the idea again to try and paint the sound of walking through autumn leaves. That sound is one of my favorite things about fall.

Rainy got her hair cut today. Then when I got her home I noticed that her left ear was red inside. I couldn't see it when all her former long hair was in the way. So I started the ear cleaning regimen and I'll put antibiotic in it later tonight.

Berdella was having problems getting her earrings in so I offered to make her a pair of earrings that she could leave in and sleep in. A pair exactly like mine but with white CZs instead of the peridot that I have in mine. It has been a LONG time since I did any jewelry work and my fingers got sore pretty quickly when it came time to hold the little pieces of silver and file and sand them. And my eyes just don't work as well to line things up or see things close anymore. At first when I started yesterday I was excited - yeah!  I can make a bunch more neat things! I'm blessed that I know how to do this thing and I should use this skill! Though the longer I'm working at it (and having difficulties), the more I'm thinking that I'm really glad that I retired from making things to sell commercially. But I don't want to get rid of any of my tools or supplies. Thinking - I bet I could figure out a simpler way to make something pretty neat using the wonderful stones and elements I already have. Something that wouldn't require good eyesight and all the perfectionism I used to expect of myself. Kind of like the quick and simple little art-a-day paintings now. Make silver things just to please me or that I'll feel free to give away or decorate with.

I started watching "Doc" on netflix and am really liking it. Taking a break from "Touched By An Angel". Though I will still sometimes watch an episode of TBAA before sleep. Like watching comfort tv.

Saw the PA at my doctor's yesterday. I like her - better than I like the actual doctor there. She is reassuring. I guess I will learn to live with the crazy heart beats. I'm having palpitations about once every other day. No rhyme or reason to when they happen. They usually last less than 10 minutes. At least my heart is beating! And since I got off the metoprolol it's not going too slow anymore. I've cut my caffeine way down hoping that would help me avoid any future Afib that might be lurking. So that's the plan.

More Soothing YouTube Videos

Oct. 4th, 2025 02:33 pm
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No embeds this time, just links.

Everyone is calm and competent and cooperative

[profile] calamitykim1 is a 20-something woman who loves driving big rigs and fixing machinery and narrates as she goes, but autocraptions. In September 2025, she drives a tractor trailer through small-town Britain, carrying a piece of metal so large it requires a police escort—her typical length is 30 minutes. Moving traffic, but no flashing lights.

Ocean Creatures

[profile] exploreoceans features both livestreams and highlight reels. Super soothing is the 2025 Highlights of Pacific Walruses Hauling Out on a Beach—no narration or music, just surf on the beach and moaning walruses for 25 minutes. It’s part of the explore.org network, which I discovered via their delightful Fat Bear Week contest.

Admire Our Planet from Space

I love [profile] astronauticast’s 3-5 minute timelapse compilations from the International Space Station. They’re compiled by ISAA, the Italian Space and Astronautics Association. They travel at a steady rate over various parts of our globe, with a handy reference diagram in the upper left corner. Witness hundreds of thunderstorms from the west coast of Mexico all the way to Portugal. Admire auroras and airflows above North America. I shouldn’t have been surprised that deserts are readily visible because so few clouds. No words—pleasant classical-ish music.

Bruno (morning writing, cats)

Oct. 4th, 2025 07:39 am
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We are welcoming Bruno, a young charcoal grey cat, in our home. He was a kitten rescued during Helene last year, and we are his third placement. It seems that children and a tumultuous household may stress him, and he has some sort of GI/urinary tract issue.

Christine had reached out to Cat Tales Cat Cafe (cattalescatcafe.com) on Thursday -- i think because her sister is likely to adopt from there -- to discuss our outdoor space as they only adopt for indoor cats. I overheard her chatting, explaining our past, acknowledging their boundaries, and concluding that they could keep us in mind if there were any cats who came through them who would be exceptions.

Thursday night she received an email:

 Thank you for your application for a cat in our rescue.... And we usually require that the cats adopted through our rescue are indoor only cats with a few exceptions. And I wanted to discuss one of those exceptions. Let me tell you a little about Bruno.

Bruno was found during the heavy rainstorms we got in our area from hurricane Helene last year. He was found with 3 siblings, all of whom have been adopted. Bruno was adopted as well but he was returned to us when he had inappropriate urinary issues when he never had those issues before. Bruno was a fairly shy guy and had been adopted into a very busy household with a bunch of kids. We believe it was just too much for him and the inappropriate peeing is stress related in addition to crystals being present in his urine. We had another person adopt Bruno and they were aware of his issues and told us they wanted to work on it with him. They also have young kids and they told us that Bruno only peed inappropriately when the children were around. So we feel strongly that Bruno could be a good indoor/outdoor cat in a low stress household without children. He loves people and other cats but has never been around a dog so that's an unknown factor. ....

 I personally fostered Bruno for a couple of months before he went to the second adopter and he never had a peeing incident unless a young person or a stranger was around. Would you be willing to give this very handsome, sweet and affectionate guy a try? He needs a special place that's not easy to find. He really is a gem and deserves to have a happy home.

Bruno was returned to the fosterer on Thursday evening. By end of work Friday we had chatted with my sister (who has a cat with crystal and kidney issues) to see what her experience was, and made plans to check him out. We brought him home last night. It's been OK so far, although i probably rushed taking him from the bathroom to the front room where there is a bed he can disappear under. He did get up to see me, but when i pulled a kleneex out to address a dingleberry he disappeared again.

He has a higher pitched meow. He was apparently named according to a pixar theme, and Bruno of Encanto is his eponym. (Haven't seen the movie; listened to the song, and read about the character last night.)

I hope he foresees peace and quiet with us.

Meanwhile, Christine is in a migraine cluster. My labile moods remain.

a mellow much

Oct. 3rd, 2025 05:59 pm
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I went to the first-Thursday queer women's munch at the Wildrose last night. There were only eight people there, but that's not bad because I don't get the FOMO because I can't get to half the people in the room. I could have stayed home and circumflatulated, but I'm glad I didn't. Happiness is hanging out with people you have a lot in common with.

I still haven't seen Martha, the 'Rose's owner, all year. That's too bad.

I remembered how to sleep.

Oct. 2nd, 2025 08:38 am
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After udon courtesy of the Wendling for dinner, a little housework, and (yeah, I know) Duogingo, I started to feel sleepy. It had been a rainy day, and local sunset yesterday was at 1837. So I listened to my body and went to bed.

I woke up afet 2230, took off my makeup and brushed my teeth, and fell asleep again around 2315. I slept until my alarm went off at 0600.

That's over ten hours of sleep. And I got what I thought was a decent night's sleep Tuesday night. I'm not entirely sure why this happened, but this is definitely a gift horse situation.

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Oct. 1st, 2025 01:05 pm
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Yesterday was a pray-for-a-coma migraine. I went to an appointment with my GP to talk about a bunch of things, then came home, looked at my computer, realized that yes really a migraine was coming on fast and hard, then logged out. My interrupt meds kinda-sorta helped, but I spent the day in a napping haze.

Late afternoon-ish, there was a marked drop in the symptoms that mean I can't look at the TV, so Peev and I decided to watch Weapons. Which is a decent horror movie, and I'll probably watch it again to see what I missed. You see, Peev was adamant that I not do my usual thing of spoiling myself for the movie, because he'd heard from multiple people to avoid all spoilers before watching. 

... yeah. Now he understands why I spoil myself, because being tense and anxious about possible jump scares and just what happens next means I can't settle in and enjoy the story AND causes a low-to-mid level anxiety attack. He gets it now. 

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Oct. 1st, 2025 07:39 pm
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+ My brain is mush. We dock sometime during tonight, so tomorrow will be another hectic day. Thankfully come Friday I shall have freedoooommmm.

+ I want a Big Barda icon but I'm too zapped to make one *sulk*

Maybe after I've had my shower.

+ Not helping: my mom constantly asking me when I can come see her in Oslo, and for plans this Christmas when she'll be visiting and living at my brother's. I do not have capacity for this. Love her to bits but it's tough to convey that SOCIAL BANK EMPTY, PLAN QUEUE FULL.

+ Booked my flu shot for next Thursday. Apparently they're not doing Covid shots at the doctor anymore, boo. And the only information I can find is that it becomes available week 42. Hopefully I manage to get in there early enough that it will mostly be in full effect by the time I go to Thailand.

+ One Battle After Another will be showing at the small local cinema next week. There's been some very positive buzz. I may try to lure some friends to come with.

+ Decided to try and move away from using GoodReads, and so far StoryGraph seems a good fit. I know there's quite a few options out there, but I only made it through two before settling on StoryGraph. (Fable being the second option, but just way too busy for me. Someone looking for a move involved and social experience might vibe with it!)

One of the fun things is you can make your own book lists or challenges. I started putting together a small Queer Comics one. I could only find two other comic/graphic novel challenges by searching, so that's certainly a void in need of filling that's what she said.

Anyways, I'm here, in case anybody else is stretching their wings.

Sad eta: Jane Goodall has passed.

Reality arrives with fall.

Oct. 1st, 2025 08:54 am
sistawendy: me in profile in a Renaissance dress at a party (contemplative red)
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I'm home in Seattle, not bopping around New York.

Poo:

I have put away my bike shorts for the winter.

I have closed all my windows.

I have gotten back on the apps (Now on Feeld!) but my heart isn't in it.

Still not Imperatrix Mundi. And the mundus certainly needs an imperatrix like yours truly right now.

But hey:

I no longer need to water my outdoor plants for the next several months.

It's amazing how quickly my weight responds to getting back on my bike and not eating minibar snacks.

I've been making circumflatulatory progress.

I've got some awesome Burner-flavored events scheduled for the next two weekends, and the Tickler is going with me to the first of them.
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If anyone’s wondering whether US farmers exporting to China just need a little “temporary help” to get over Trump’s trade war, read this thread from farmer Sarah Taber on Mastodon. She’s a farmer from North Carolina and deeply involved in farming issues. Read all of the thread.

If you won’t, though – if know your US Civil War history, you might know about how the Confederacy self-embargoed cotton exports, withholding “King Cotton” from the market.

They thought it would grind textiles production in the UK to a halt and force the UK to come in on their side of the war.

What happened instead was Egyptian cotton.

Trump pulled his bullshit thinking China would bow to him over soybeans; what happened instead was Brazil and Argentina. They haven’t bought a single goddamn US soybean since last spring, as South America ramped production right the fuck up.

Soybeans were the US’s largest agricultural export.

Emphasis on were.

And arguably, it gets worse from there.

So seriously, go read the thread. It’s good, knowledgable shit.

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The Essequibo River is the queen of rivers all!
    Buddy-ta-na-na, we are somebody, oh!
The Essequibo River is the queen of rivers all!
    Buddy-ta-na-na, we are somebody, oh!

    Somebody, oh, Johnny! Somebody, oh!
    Buddy-ta-na-na, we are somebody, oh!

– Sea shanty, presumed Guyanese

Let us appreciate that the only reason – the only reason – I know about what I am about to share with you is because of that whole music history thing of mine. It's not even my history. My main beat is 16th century dance music (± half a century). But dance music is working music, and as such I consider all the forms of work music to be its counsin, and so I have, of an occasion, wandered into the New England Folk Festival's sea-shanty sing. Many people go through life understanding the world around them through the perspective of a philosophical stance, a religious conviction, a grand explanatory theory, fitting the things they encounter into these frameworks; I do not know if I should be embarrased or not, but for me, so often it's just song cues.

So when I saw the word "Essequibo" go by in the web-equivalent of page six of the international news, I was all like, "Oh! I know that word!" recognizing a song cue when I see one. "It's a river. I wonder where it is?"

And I clicked the link.

That was twenty-one months ago.

Ever since, I have been on a different and ever-increasingly diverging timeline from the one just about everyone else is on.

In December of 2023, Nicolas Maduro, president of Venezuela, tried to kick off World War Three.

He hasn't stopped trying. He's had to take breaks to steal elections and deal with some climate catastrophe and things like that. But mostly ever since – arguably since September of 2023 – Maduro has been escalating.

You wouldn't know it from recent media coverage of what the US is doing off the coast of Venezuela. At no point has any news coverage of the US military deployment to that part of the world mentioned anything about the explosive geopolitical context there. A geopolitical context, that when it has been reported on is referred to in terms like "a pressure cooker" and "spiraling".

The US government itself has said nothing that alludes to it in any way. The US government has its story and it's sticking to it: this is about drugs.

As you may be aware, the US government is claiming to have sunk three Venezuelan boats using the US military. The first of these sinkings was on September 1st.

To hear the media tell it, the US just up and decided to start summarily executing people on boats in the Caribbean that it feels were drug-runners on Sep 1st.

No mention is made of what happened on Aug 31st.

On August 31, the day before the first US military attack on a Venezuelan vessel, at around 14:00 local time, somebody opened fire on election officials delivering ballot and ballot boxes in the country Venezuela is threatening to invade.

And they did it from the Venezuelan side of the river that is the border between the two countries.

That country is an American ally. An extremely close American ally. An ally that is of enormous importance to the US.

And which is a thirtieth the size of Venezuela by population, and which has an army less than one twentieth as large.

You would be forgiven for not knowing that Venezuela has been threatening to and apparently also materially preparing to invade another country, because while it's a fact that gets reported in the news, it is never reported in the same news as American actions involving or mentioning Venezuela.

Venezuela, which is a close ally of Russia.

You may have heard about how twenty-one months ago, in December of 2023, there was an election in Venezuela which Maduro claimed was a landslide win for him. There was a lot of coverage in English-speaking news about that election and how it was an obvious fraud, and the candidate who won the opposition party's primary wasn't on the ballot, and so on and so forth.

You probably didn't hear that in that very same election, there was a referendum. If you did hear it reported, you might have encountered it being dismissed in the media as a kind of political stunt of Maduro's, to get people to show up to the polls or to energize his base. It couldn't possibly be (the reasoning went) that he meant it. Surely it was just political theater.

The referendum questions put, on Dec 3, 2023, to the voters of Venezuela were about whether or not they supported establishing a new Venezuelan state.

Inside the borders of the country of Guyana.

2023 Dec 4: The Guardian: "Venezuela referendum result: voters back bid to claim sovereignty over large swath of Guyana".

Why?

Eleven billion gallons of light, sweet crude: the highest quality of oil that commands the highest price.

(I can hear all of Gen X breathe, "Oh of course.")

It is under the floor of the Caribbean in an area known as the Stabroek Block.

The Stabroek Block is off the coast of an area known as the Essequibo.

It takes its name from the Essequibo River, which borders it on one side, and it constitutes approximately two-thirds of the land area of the country of Guyana.

Whoever owns the Essequibo owns the Stabroek Block and whoever owns the Stabroek owns those 11B gallons of easily-accessed, high-value oil.


Image from BBC, originally in "Essequibo: Venezuela moves to claim Guyana-controlled region", 2023 Dec 6


As far as almost everyone outside of Venezuela has been concerned, for the last hundred years Guyana has owned the Essequibo.

Venezuela disagrees. Read more [5,760 words] )

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